Household guides

Straight answers to the questions people ask before they share a calendar, a bank balance, or a fridge.

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Sharing a household comes down to three running questions: where everyone needs to be, who paid for what, and how you keep both straight without nagging each other. These guides work through all three — start with getting everyone onto one calendar, splitting the expenses fairly, or the first weeks of living together. Every guide stands on its own; co-life is the app we build while working through the same problems.

Calendars

2 guides

Getting two or three schedules into one view without importing everyone's chaos.

How to sync Google, Apple & Outlook calendars into one

How to sync Google, Apple, and Outlook calendars into one place: what sync vs subscribe really means, what each platform can do, and the mistake to avoid.

8 min read

How to share one calendar with your partner (without double-booking)

A step-by-step guide to sharing a single calendar with your partner so plans, appointments, and reminders never collide again.

7 min read

Money

6 guides

Splitting costs, tracking what's owed, and the awkward part: talking about it.

How to budget for groceries when you're feeding a household

How to budget for groceries: why national averages are the wrong target, how to set a number from your own three months, and the levers that actually lower the bill.

8 min read

How to split expenses with roommates (the ones that aren't rent)

How to split expenses with roommates: the shared kitty, groceries and consumables, the bill in one person's name, and what to do when someone moves out owing money.

8 min read

Joint bank account for couples: how to choose, and what it won't fix

A joint bank account for couples: what the only randomised trial found, the three structures that actually work, and the shared spending a joint account never sees.

11 min read

How to split rent fairly when the rooms aren't equal

How to split rent fairly: the square-metre method, what actually makes a room worth more, and the bidding approach for three or more people.

8 min read

How to split household expenses fairly (without keeping score)

How to split household expenses fairly: the three methods that actually work, a worked example, and the tracking that stops it turning into keeping score.

10 min read

How to track shared expenses without a spreadsheet

How to track shared expenses without a spreadsheet: why the shared sheet always breaks, the three things it can't do, and what to use instead.

7 min read

Living together

4 guides

The first weeks, the routines that stick, and the agreements nobody writes down.

What to put in a cohabitation agreement (and what to just talk about)

What to include in a cohabitation agreement: the property, money and exit questions worth writing down, plus the conversations that need no lawyer at all.

8 min read

How to divide chores fairly (without a chore chart)

How to divide household chores fairly: why chore charts stop working, how to make the invisible half visible, and what to do when it is already unequal.

9 min read

How two working people run a household without dropping the ball

How to organize a household when both partners work: fewer decisions, not better ones. Shared calendar, shared money, shared notes — the mental load, halved.

7 min read

The moving-in-together checklist (beyond the boxes)

A moving-in-together checklist that covers the logistics and the two conversations most lists skip: how you'll split money and how you'll share time.

8 min read

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